No school. Mandatory work-from-home. No extracurricular activities. Not even church.
Monday, March 16, 2020
- Health Status: No symptoms
- Family Relationship Status: Good
- Fun Events now Canceled:
- I was going to take my daughter to see Wicked on 4/2. We had front row seats. Luckily we can get a refund and I guess we’ll catch it next time.
- My husband was supposed to run a 50K trail race in Indiana this coming weekend. The race is canceled. We are hoping the cabin he rented for the weekend will refund him.
My husband and I are two of the lucky ones who are able to work full time from home. I can’t imagine having to worry about losing my job, even temporarily, and I am definitely thankful I don’t have to try to find child care as child care centers start to shut down.
My daughter K is 11 and in 5th grade. Her school will be sending daily assignments to be done on paper/in workbooks or on Google Classroom. They have a 30-minute live chat session every day with the teacher and other students in the class. So, for now, she’s covered too.
I think it really hit me yesterday how much impact this social-distancing isolation really is going to have. My daughter K was going stir crazy in the house already and wanted to ride her bike. She asked if she could pop over to her friends’ house around the corner to see if they could go riding together. I almost automatically said yes, and then it hit me that wait…play dates and hanging out with friends isn’t allowed. Boy, was she bummed out. In the end, I suited up (aka put on some jogging clothes) and went out with her. We circled our neighborhood a few times, spent about a half hour getting fresh air, bike riding, and me walk/jogging along. It was fun, and likely will have to be repeated many times over the next few weeks to keep us all sane.
Get fit, or get fat?
Being trapped inside/at home for weeks on end with nothing to do except work/schoolwork makes for an interesting situation, health-wise. I suspect that many people (myself included) will have to make a genuine effort to not gain 20 pounds because we’re sitting around all day long and eating all our hoarded food.
I’m a perfect example, actually. I’m not fit; I need to lose about 40 pounds. At least when I go to the office everyday I am walking to and fro, going to conference rooms, to talk to people, or other bits of movement. Working at home? I am apt to sit at this desk in my office and leave it only to refill my coffee cup.
So, I am making the conscious choice to not gain weight during our lockdown, but to use this to my advantage. Maybe during my lunch period, something I normally don’t bother taking at the office at all, I can go for a quick jog. Maybe now that I won’t be dragging home at 7pm after a 10+ hour day, I can take a break at 5pm and take K for a bike ride/jog.
We have a cruise scheduled for the last week of May (fingers crossed that it won’t get canceled). I’m going to go with the “Get Fit” plan.
Save money, or spend a lot more money?
Something else occurred to me last night as I was browsing online for things I don’t need. Now that we’re supposed to stay away from stores as much as possible, will we start spending more money online than we would’ve previously?
Many things would cause this:
- Ooh look, a 48-pack of sparkly gel pens is on sale! We have nothing to color, but those should always come in handy, right?
- Maybe the kitty needs a new bed.
Misguided sense of necessity
- A 48-pack of toothpaste for only $40!
- Socks! Socks on sale! We always need socks!
Overestimating family bonding during isolation
- Look at all these board games! We should totally start having a family game night every night while we’re stuck at home.
- 1001 Crafts for All Ages! What a great idea!
Bottom line: Watch the online spending!
In conclusion, good luck to us all. May your isolation be as stress-free as possible, and may your family closeness stay in the green and not progress to the “kill each other faster than a virus ever could” state.
A year or so ago, I popped into the local convenience store to drop $20 on Powerball tickets and honestly felt so conspicuous and silly, I never did it again. I just knew the cashier was snickering secretly inside as she handed me my auto-generated tickets. (I didn’t even want to be there long enough to choose my own numbers).
This year, I discovered I could buy these tickets online. Online! I couldn’t resist. $440 million, guys, seriously! I went online and created a profile, then bought 10 tickets for the bargain price of $20. One night, one drawing only. I decided to auto-pick 9 tickets, but for the fun of it, I selected the numbers on my 10th.
Have you ever ever suffered from “but what if I change that number and it was the winning number!?!” syndrome? Wow – it’s hard to change those default numbers. What if that was the winning ticket I just messed with? What if $440 million just slipped through my fingers because I changed that 43 to a 19?!?
I purposely did not memorize what the numbers used to be, for the sake of my sanity, and went about selecting my own.
Tomorrow night is the big drawing!
So here’s the fun part. After my online purchase, the Lottery was so thrilled to have me as a captive potential online gambler, that they gave me a $10 balance to play with. That’s right, folks…free money! So I went to the online games screen, which is basically the equivalent of all the scratch-off tickets you want cross-bred with Candy Crush and Solitaire. Basically…addictive online Flash games. For money. To make it more suck-you-in-able, there’s this nifty little feed on the right-hand side updating you that “James just won $5,000 playing Crush that Football!”, “Cindy just won $3,400 playing Queens are Great”, or “JELK3327 just won $10,000 playing Merry Christmas Scratch-a-Sled!”
How can you not give those a try?
So, I happily played away my free $10 – sometimes I won $1.50 here and there, mostly I lost. I played the lowest priced tickets to stretch my balance as long as possible, but no five-figure wins for me. Oh well – it was a fun 15 minutes.
But wow…I can see how that could get addictive.
There’s that feeling of “If I just try one more time…” constantly, and your old pal PayPal (or whatever payment / deposit method you set up initially) is there to pop up immediately when your balance is gone to point out that with just one easy click you can add another $5, $20, $100 and keep playing until your name is scrolling over there to the right.
I stopped. That was last night.
Tonight, I got another email from the Lottery, welcoming me again as an online “player” and giving me 5 free games. That’s right – 5 free games! So I, their potential online gambling addict-in-training, logged in and started to play my free games. I can just picture the marketing team at the Lottery offices rubbing their evil hands together in glee. My gaming fun began. At one point I was up…UP!…$5.85. I was poised to strike it big, to be a right-hand-feed celebrity.
Three minutes later, it was gone, and PayPal was not-so-subtly prodding me to add more, to just try again, one more time. I restrained myself.
Then, it occurred to me that I had, on a whim, bought a $5 scratch-off a few weeks ago at the store…impulse buy. It was a loser, but I remembered seeing that you could try a second-chance by playing online. I fetched the card and found the spot on the site to plug in the codes and was able to play again! This time I was sure to win – positive! I … did win, but the very base prize, which, in second-chance-scratch-offs means I won 6 entries in the “drawing.”
Good grief…what is this now?
After looking around on the site, I finally found it. Each week there is a drawing from the pool of second-chance-scratch-off “losers”. 5 people are awarded $100 worth of … ? Scratch-off instant tickets!
My heavens…It’s a vicious cycle.
So, sometime in the next week, I will either a) win $440 million; b) win $100 worth of scratch-off lottery tickets; c) both of the above; or d) none of the above.
Anyone want to place a bet on which option the odds are best on? Stay tuned!
Time to dust off this website…and some other things that I used to enjoy spending time doing. The new year is dawning crisp and cold (3 degrees! Brrr!) and I feel ready to try to make life fun again.
I’m going to check in with myself every couple of months and see how I’m tracking with these so I don’t forget about them. That’s always the problem with resolutions – you make them and then promptly forget about them by February. I want to really stick to these this year.
So, without further ado, bring on 2018!
Scene: A seafood restaurant
Observation: Mother tapping on iPhone while daughter excitedly points at and chatters about the various fish hanging on the wall.
Assumption: Mother ignoring daughter while checking Facebook and/or texting.
Reality: My daughter and I were looking up those fish online to see if we were right about what kind of fish they were. read more…
“Time” for Something New
*I’ve had week or two with no posts due to some site redesign and tweaking I’ve been working on. I plan to get things back on track in the upcoming week. I appreciate the patience of all my followers!*
So, I needed a new obsession. My friend Jenna Karvunidis has gotten me suddenly ‘into’ pearls, but since I can’t afford to buy every pearl I fall in love with, I was trying to find something fun that I could collect a little faster while I dream my pearls into being.
Is this not a really cute bracelet watch?
Casual and fun — and affordable!
I paid $8.59 for it and I see it’s down to $6.99 right now!
When I began this book review, I didn’t realize right away that this book was originally published as The Middle Child and not Dear Mother. So…there’s that. Either title will lead you to this book by Angela Marsons.
The book promised that I would “sob [my] heart out”. Sadly, this did not happen. There was one scene, the Ferris Wheel scene (which is all I’ll say without revealing spoilers) that did bring some tears to my eyes, but it probably was not for the reasons why most people found the book heartrending.
The basic premise is 3 grown-up women dealing with the death of their evil abusive mother and how the abuse has affected their individual lives.